Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Sunday, August 14, 2011

Jayna Oso - Inter-Racial Love Stories

Jayna Oso - Inter-Racial Love Stories









































It's strange that they decided to put a colored leash around the neck of Jayna Oso before filming this interracial scene. Seriously, did anyone actually think she was going to get up and leave this is a girl who needs to be chained down so that she can be kept *away* from black cock, not so that she can be kept on it.

























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Monday, April 11, 2011

How Long Before You Finally Give Up and Move On?

I know I have said countless times again, that when the time comes for marriage, it will come. But, I would at least like to know that my significant other is remotely interested in marrying me. From my comments and questions on it, he always shuns away from it or tries to avoid the subject.

A year or so ago, he was hinting at just going to Las Vegas and getting married, but since then he seems to have changed his mind or it was all a sham to keep me around longer.

We've been together for 5 years and 5 months now, so how long would you wait around until someone finally decides to ask you to marry them? I'm definitely not in no big hurry to take the plunge, but I would just like a little bit of a clue if it will ever happen. My thoughts are leaning towards no, because he had a failed marriage prior and doesn't want to go through that again. How is it any different than what we're doing now? Only on paper -- is what I tell him.

I think after you've been with someone for that long, you SHOULD know whether or not they're the one. There isn't a person I would rather spend the rest of my life with, and yes even with his sarcastic mouth. It just wouldn't be him without it.

So why can't I hear those words from him? Men, learn to communicate better!

If it never happens, I don't know if I can live with that, because without marriage, there is no children and that is a big deal breaker for me.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Flirting While Taken, Is It Harmless?

I think flirting with a stranger is okay in certain circumstances. You see an attractive person in the store, you smile at each other, maybe have a very brief conversation, and never see each other again. It makes you feel good about yourself and gives a little lift to your day. But flirting with people you know is risky; there's a chance that it could turn into something more, and it's simply disrespectful to your partner.

I think most of us agree that we wouldn't like it if our significant other was flirting with other people. But, does that really stop us from doing it ourselves? Not really. People are people and we only do what is natural to us. I am guilty of this, even though I hate admitting it. My intentions were not to flirt, I was just simply being kind back to the charming person who was sending signals my way. Nothing came out of it, in fact - I stopped talking to him eons ago.

Is it different because its over a computer screen and not face to face? It might be, if you're being upfront and honest with your partner and not keeping it a secret for as long as you talk to this person. Does it hurt just as much? I would think any emotional bond with someone that you're flirting with daily -- other than your partner would cause pain regardless, since you're supposed to be united with one person and one person only. Unless of course you have stipulations on your relationship, like leaving it open to roam with whomever you choose as long as you come back to your original partner.

I've never understood those types though. If you don't want to be in a relationship and have the balls to screw other people, then go be a slut. STD's and failed marriages have become a big joke today and no one takes them serious anymore.


What do you think? 





Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Stay in Relationships for the Kids?

We all know that drama with family members spreads like wildfire. I'm usually always the last to know, but that's okay in certain instances. This one however, I was pretty mad over.

So, the story goes... my brother is dating this girl for probably 2 years now - total. When they first got together, they didn't know much about each other, but I guess it was instant love for her. He pulled away because he's never had an emotionally stable person in his life, so he was scared - yet still a bit in love with his ex. They were both stupid and didn't use protection when they did have sex, and she got knocked up. This freaked him out, because he was not ready for a kid at that time. (I never understood why people freak out, like it's some miracle that a child is produced when condoms are not used) Like, fucking der. So, they agreed to get an abortion.

Well, maybe 4 or 5 months down the road, she's knocked up again. Hello, stupid asses did you not just have an abortion not too long ago cause you weren't ready? Mind you, my brother is a mellow laid back person, she is the more dominant, controlling one and I've noticed this ever since she came around. Anyways, they're ready for this child and continue their relationship. She argues with him over stupid shit, bickers if he doesn't answer to her every beck and call and she's a very jealous person.

Him and I and one other sister have the same father. One of my other siblings is the same age as he and they attended school together and sort of dated. But, at that time, neither one knew that they were connected somehow until my mom seen him when she picked my sister up at school. She asked if his last name was a certain last name, since he looks like a spitten image of our father. So, that's how we were reunited 4 or 5 years ago. He's 21 now.... and its still been kind of awkward and we're still not as close as I'd hoped we would be.

But anyways, his gf does not trust him to hang out with my other sibling alone who has no relation to him what-so-ever, since they at one point in time, kissed and had a thing. Even though they both see that as gross now, since we're all family. It's just weird, she shouldn't feel threatened over something that happened when they were teenagers. He just turned 21 in October and he wanted to go out with his guy friends, since the previous night was their night. He went to a dance club and a strip joint, since someone wanted to buy him a lap dance. I didn't see the huge ordeal in all of it since its a one time thing and she should let him enjoy his fucking birthday for christs sake. But no, she had a psychotic fit and was dramatic about the whole thing on Facebook and ended up dumping him for like a day. My brother was torn, because he wanted to be with his son.

(she's the type of person that will keep him from him just to be a vindictive bitch.)

Well recently, the thing that pissed me off was - he had his son all day while she was at work, since she works weekends for like 4 hours and he's off then. After he picked her up from work, he had to go drop something off at my moms house for a second. She sat in the car with their son and when he got back in the car, she decided to start arguing with him over stupid crap. He turned up the car radio, because he didn't want to fight or hear her bitch at him and she punched him in the face and bloodied him up real good. He got out of the car and went back in my moms house and she sped off somewhere. Like wtf? If I could, I so would go and punch her right square in the fucking face, so she could see how it feels, but first - I would make sure that my nephew is no where near me at the time so he doesn't have to see that shit.

He's close with my sibling he went to school with. He tells her everything. So he says he's not in love with his gf anymore and has only been staying with her because he doesn't want to be like our father. He has no idea that he is 100 times better than our father ever was. (was never around for any of us kids)

SO, I decided to post a status on FB (yes I know, fb is god-like and everyone reads that shit) that wasn't necessarily mentioned that it was directed at them, but I'm pretty sure they gathered that.


"Relationships come and go, some will be long lasting and some will be destructive. When you're in a failed relationship, that doesn't mean you have to stay to make the "other" person happy when you're miserable. Do what you want to do, even if it isn't what the other person wants."

everyone agreed, but got no response from the two people it was directed at... 

How do I talk to my brother to let him know that he doesn't need to be with her in order to provide and be there for his son? Because, this relationship was doomed from the start.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Will Women Do Anything For a Man?






Are most women stupid? The reason I ask this, is because it's a constant topic of discussion, especially with the room-mate who is having dating problems.

Now, I know we can easily say most men are stupid too. But, let's think for a minute here. If we didn't allow men to treat us in a way that most would find offensive, then I don't think we would have as many issues as we do in relationships. I know I am guilty of this in the past. I let someone walk all over me and treat me like I was shit on his shoe. I was also a tad bit younger and didn't have a clue as to what to do in that predicament.

I think most women nowadays just roll over and take it up the ass, figuratively and we need to learn how to grow a back bone. Otherwise, it'll just continue. But, then we let "love" or what I like to call "lust" get in the way. You have to ask yourself, is this worth all the trouble you're going through? Probably not in most cases.

Like for instance, one of my younger siblings is dating this douche-nozzle who sleeps around with her friends, impregnated her and has 4 other children and who knows how many more that they don't know about. He's also fooled around with my other younger sister who is a minor. To me, that says "child molester", and the sad thing is - my sister still wants to be with him because she has a kid with him. If the guy wanted to have a family, he would have stopped after the first woman and took care of his kids, but he can't keep his dick in his pants if his life depended on it.

Now if this was me, this ass-hat would be gone quicker than I could shit. ( if you knew me, you'd know I'm in and out, like what)

I know people dream of having a family with the father or mother of their child. But, in cases like that - you're better off without. So, why do we put up with so much shit from men?

Simple - because we're stupid and men know they get away with it.


Friday, March 12, 2010

Do Guys Get too Accustom to Relationships?





Let's say you're laying in bed naked next to your lover and you are hoping to get some that night. But, he continues to read, then proceeds to turn off the light and pass out. Maybe he's just too used to the fact that you're in bed naked a lot, so you'll have to start wearing something more unattractive like your grandmothers mu mu's -- so he won't take your hot, naked body for granted.

Guys like to blame their lack of sex drive on their tiredness, but is this just certain guys or every single one, once they reach a certain age? Or is it because the relationship has gone past a certain milestone, that it becomes boring to them with that person? I honestly don't think we will ever know the answers to these questions.

Most of you might be thinking, " you have it totally wrong, it's the other way around ". Well, let me tell you, in my experience - this has not been the case. Since I am in my 20s, my sex drive has not disappeared and probably won't for a long time -- at least I'm hoping.



So, If your girlfriend is in bed, naked and laying next to you with her do me face, that means she wants sex. Don't be a greedy bastard and give it to her!