Sexy Sunday - One Night Stands

1. How do you feel about one night stands? I particularly don't care for them, because you end up feeling retarded afterwords, like "why the fuck did I just do that AND with him of all people"? I guess you could say I've had only one, but this wasn't a random stranger or someone I had known for a short period of time. It was an ex of mine, that I had never had sex with to begin with, so I kinda wanted to "test" the waters about 5 years down the road, so to speak. Let's just say it was a learning experience for me, since he's way too big for it to be sexually pleasurable. Now I know what I do and don't like, penis size wise because of him. ha - Poptart

I've had my share of one night stands with men and women. My man and I have been together three and a half years.  He is the first man I've ever been faithful too.  Sex for me has always been something of an urge so I've had a lot of it.  I was a slut back in the day.  Fuck off, any of you judgemental mother fuckers out there!  I liked one night stands when I was younger.  It was almost considered a sport between me and one of my first girlfriends, Donna.  She and I were as safe as two 17 yr o'lds can be when they are all drugged up.  We saw the same doc every 3 months for our check ups, tests, birth control refills.  I think it's a fucking miracle that I've made it through life STD free. Today my opinion on one night stands has changed.  I wouldn't cheat on Darling Dick but if we were having a one night stand together I'd have a lot more safety concerns now. I'm scared a one night stand could lead to some crazy person wanting to stalk us.  I'm sure I have nothing to worry about as I would most likely turn out to be the crazy person. _Babe

2. Would you judge someone if they had one? It's their hot body, they can do what they want, as Cartman would say. - Poptart

 If they had it with my man behind my back, then yes. I will judge the fuck outta both of them as I punch their faces in!  Anyone else, oh wellz, it's their body.  None of my concern.  _Babe

3. What makes it okay or not okay in your opinion? To me, sex isn't something I just spread whenever, however, and to whomever. It's special, something I am willing to share with my partner. Call me old fashioned. - Poptart

Poptart, I don't think you're old fashioned.  I think it also shows how committed you are to your partner.  ;-) 
One night stands would only be okay in my book if it was a threesome with my man and we all used protection.  What makes them not okay is the disease and unwanted pregnancies the world gets from them.  I'm happy to live the rest of my life and never have one again.  _Babe