Okay, so I occasionally fake my orgasms. Most women do, so I'm told. I'm pretty positive guys can fake an orgasm too, it's just that they can't hide it as well - obviously.Now I'm not talking about the kind of faking Sally showed off to Harry. (If you don't get that joke then I'm old enough to be your role model)
When I was younger, I faked it to be polite to those boyfriends that tried hard and meant well. Then I had those boyfriends where I just wanted to get it over with. After a while I just got used to the idea of faking it to make it a better more action-packed experience! Men especially paid more attention to my needs during sex when they'd hear those distinct moans.
I'm all about the extra "Oooo's, Mmmm's, and Ahhh's" but I think perhaps I've gotten too used to embellishing my sexcapades.
I have a wonderful man that turns me on beyond belief! He will do just about anything to get me to cum - multiple times if requested. I love him for that and his many other talents. We have a great sex life! Some sort of sexy act occurs several times a week with us. Occasionally we go longer than a week and it doesn't usually bother us, because when we do wait, the sex is fantastic!! And yes I have faked orgasms with him. It never really bothered me that I faked it with him once in a while, since the orgasms were much more plentiful than the fakers.
About a month or more ago I noticed it had become more usual for me to fake it than have a real orgasm. I've been trying a few different positions and had moderate success. Things I've tried on my own haven't really worked like I'd hoped...argh. Part of me says it's just part of getting older and part of me says it’s my recent change in schedule. I completely stopped working out too and that could have possibly affected my libido. I've heard of this being something that helps get hormones roaring. And now, this seems to be my punishment for being lazy. :(
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