It's All About The Foreplay - By Cupcake!

 

(most may not be able to relate this)

But...

I am wondering how many women out there really don't enjoy foreplay? I don't think I've met a woman yet who didn't like some kind of stimulation. This can help you be more open and intensify the sexual gratification when reaching the point of orgasm. As you know, some women take longer to reach orgasm or never get to experience it. They need more excitement to get them ready for the big ending, and most men are too lazy to get their women hot for that grand finale. There are so many different ways to get excited when you're with your partner -- that it should just come naturally. But, I have figured out from past experiences.. that some guys just want to get it in and get off, literally! Most are too lazy to make sure that we get satisfied. Come on guys, be a real man and make your woman happy so you and her can both feel good about yourselves.  Then you can go pass out after.  

 Some of the easiest ways to get your ladies hot and bothered are a lot more simple then you'd think. Try kissing the back of her shoulders, rubbing your stubbly chin across her neck while watching her squirm. I must say, it is one of my favorites. Lightly rub your fingertips up and down her arms, legs and torso, as the slightest touch can be extremely arousing and stimulating. Use simple things from around your house as fun toys, like; a clean new feather duster, a silky scarf or even some of her pantyhose, try a damp washcloth being ran up and down the back while sitting in a tub with candles lit with some good music playing, which can be a huge turn on. Get her some fresh flowers, take one of them from the vase and lightly rub it on her face and neck, the soft velvety feel of flowers is very intriguing. Try rubbing some of your favorite foods on her and eating and licking them off, chocolate syrup whipped cream, anything stick and messy and yummy is always good.

These are all very simple things guys can do to help get your ladies in the mood before you go pounce on her. Try and use your imagination. I was with this amazing guy who loved to try new things. He loved having candle wax poured on him and then peeled off, and then I took ice cubes and slowly rubbed them over the little stingy parts, it would drive him crazy. I let him try it on me and I was a little scared at first, but then I realized it felt really good and ended up doing it a lot. Don't be afraid to try new things, you'd be surprised what you both might enjoy together. Ask her if there's something shes always wanted to try and see what she says, it might be something you want to try too and were too afraid or embarrassed to bring up. 

And guys if you start slowly and work forward your ladies will respond and return the favor so don't think of this as a selfish act for the women, its not "give all, get nothing back". It will only make your ladies appreciate you more.